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Divorce Magazine eNewsletter

Robert G. Wellon and Divorce Magazine are pleased to provide our monthly eNewsletter. We hope this information is helpful and supportive.

NEWSLETTER - April 2021

Considering Divorce
7 Things to Consider Before Pulling the Plug on Your Marriage
Before you decide to end your marriage, ask yourself whether divorce is truly the answer. If so, then use these tips to move forward positively into your next chapter.

Financial Issues
5 Helpful Ways to Improve Your Finances Post-Divorce
Preserving your mental & emotional health post-divorce is stressful, but taking control of your finances can alleviate some of that stress.

Children and Divorce
Minimize the Physical & Emotional Effects of Divorce on Children
Divorce is a painful experience for anyone, but for children, the physical & emotional reactions can be quite traumatic.

Life After Divorce
8 Books That Helped me Create my Perfect Life After Divorce
For all its worry, sadness, & challenges, divorce also provides the opportunity for creativity to run untethered and for unforeseen opportunities to enter.

Dating After Divorce
3 Keys to Success Before Dating After Divorce
It can be hard to imagine going on a date, especially after a long-term marriage. These three keys will help you step into the dating pool with confidence!


NEWSLETTER - March 2021

Divorce Process
How To Plan For The Future When You Begin Divorce Proceedings
By thinking about the future now, you can focus on the right things before you begin divorce proceedings.

Financial Issues
5 Things to Consider About Bankruptcy After Divorce
Deciding to file for bankruptcy can be a stressful task after an already stressful divorce.

Relationships and Dating
10 Rules for Marriage and Divorce
Follow these rules and enjoy much more productive relationships.

Life After Divorce
5 Steps To Buying a House After Divorce
If you're thinking about buying a house after divorce, here are the steps you need to take.

Divorce Recovery
Dealing With Grief of Divorce? Here's How to Get Through it
Now that you've embarked on this journey facing the grief of divorce, you can only go forward.


NEWSLETTER - February 2021

Considering Divorce
My Marriage Exit Plan: I Hope You Find it Helpful
Realizing that her marriage was killing her, and divorce was the only way out, one woman created a marriage exit plan covering many common divorce issues. Read on to benefit from her experience.

Children and Divorce
Small Heartbreak: 4 Tips for Telling Your Child About Your Divorce
You've decided to divorce. Now comes the most difficult part: telling your child about your decision.

Financial Issues
Starting Over With Your Finances After a Divorce
Create a plan for your finances as early as possible; it can go a long way to making your divorce as simple as it can be. Here are 5 tips on handling your finances after divorce.

Legal Issues
What to Do After Divorce: 10 Important Tasks
Unfortunately, your divorce judgment doesn't describe what to do after divorce to complete your financial and legal separation. Here are the top 10 post-divorce tasks to help you start the next chapter of your life.

Life After Divorce
8 Ways to Embrace 2021 After Divorce
As you continue to move forward you will come into a place of acceptance where you're able to embrace 2021 after divorce.


NEWSLETTER - January 2021

Financial Issues
How to Handle Divorce in a Family Business
Here are some tips on how to handle a divorce when you rely on your partner in a family business.

Coping with Divorce
7 New Year’s Resolutions for Divorced or Divorcing People
Why not take advantage of the opportunity to create New Year's resolutions that fit your new life?

Relationships and Dating
How Remarried Couples Can Make Their Marriage a Priority
The challenges of remarriage and stepfamily life can chisel away at the closeness of you and your spouse if you forget to make your partner a top priority. This can only truly be communicated through consistency between your actions and words.

Co-Parenting
Don’t Make Divorce Co-Parenting Your New Year’s Resolution
If you truly want to have a better co-parenting relationship in 2021, don’t make a broad resolution to do so. Instead try to focus on small, actionable steps that you will follow through with during the year. Here are 6 tips to try.

Coping with Divorce
Ways to Boost Your Self Esteem After Divorce
Divorce can give you the opportunity you need to find the joy and confidence you might have thought was gone.


NEWSLETTER - December 2020

Considering Divorce
Happy New Year - I Want a Divorce!
If your New Year's resolution is to start a new life through divorce, here's what you need to know.

Financial Issues
Don't Overlook the Details in Your Divorce Agreement
Here are our top 5 details not to overlook to ensure your agreement doesn't fall victim to the financial pitfalls of a poorly written divorce agreement.

Divorce Process
10 Things You Should Know About Divorce During a Pandemic
I got divorced during the 2020 pandemic. Sounds like something printed on a t-shirt, right?

Children and Divorce
Tips to Help Children Enjoy the Holidays After Divorce During COVID-19
You and your children can build new traditions and memories of the holidays that will endure the test of time.

Coping with Divorce
3 Gifts from Your Divorce for This Holiday Season
The holidays can be stressful enough, and that stress can be compounded by your divorce.


NEWSLETTER - November 2020

Considering Divorce
Avoid Making These Mistakes When Searching For a Divorce Attorney
If you are in the process of searching for a divorce attorney, avoid making the following mistakes.

Divorce Process
Use of Online Mediation for a Potential Post-Quarantine Divorce Spike
Take your future into your own hands and utilize video conferencing.

Co-Parenting after Divorce
6 Tips for Surviving Thanksgiving Without Your Kids
Here are six ways to keep yourself from going crazy with sadness this Thanksgiving alone.

Financial Issues
Nesting After Divorce Can Actually Save You Money
Unlike a traditional divorce scenario, nesting means there is only one primary residence.

Divorce Recovery
5 Tips on Staying Mindful During Divorce
Staying mindful during divorce isn't easy, but with a little bit of practice and creativity, you can get through it.


NEWSLETTER - October 2020

Children and Divorce
7 Activities For Single Parents To Keep The Kids Entertained
Keeping your kids entertained at home can sometimes be hard work.

Divorce News and Statistics
Early Signs that COVID-19 Could Be Destroying Marriages
Divorce rates are on the rise due to COVID-19.

Financial Issues
Financial Independence: Steps to Take After a Divorce
After your divorce, you may wonder how you will gain financial independence.

Coping with Divorce
Loss of Identity and Finding Yourself After Divorce
It's not about surviving but about reclaiming yourself as a beautiful human being.

Dating After Divorce
Dating After Divorce? Ask Yourself These 5 Questions First
The post-divorce healing process gives you an opportunity to learn more about yourself.


NEWSLETTER - September 2020

Considering Divorce
Should You Get a Divorce? 10 Key Questions to Ask Yourself
Are you unsure about whether you ever really loved your partner, or are you just going through a difficult time?

Coping with Divorce
Things I Thought I Would Never Say to My Ex During a Pandemic!
The card I recently drew during the COVID-19 pandemic included all the things I thought I would never hear myself say to my ex during a pandemic.

Co-Parenting after Divorce
Back- to-School Planning with Your Co-Parent
The goal for back-to-school planning is to set the year up for success, so incorporate any strategies or professionals that will help you meet that goal.

Financial Issues
Lesser-Known Financial Risks for Couples Facing Divorce
Learn about these lesser-known financial risks to protect your financial future when you're going through a divorce.

Life After Divorce
Dating After Divorce: 5 Top Tips from a Relationship Expert
Here are a few tips to help you overcome the fear and build a positive approach to dating after divorce.


NEWSLETTER - August 2020

Considering Divorce
Facing a Divorce As Quarantine Ends?
Family Law specialists and therapists predict a surge in separation and divorce consultations as shelter-in-place restrictions are lifted.

Financial Issues
Can My Ex Inherit My Assets?
Many of us don't know how to protect ourselves from financial disaster that can occur long after divorce.

Coping with Divorce
Online Safety Tips After Divorce
It may take a while to feel safe again now that you're single. Following these online safety tips after divorce will help protect your privacy.

Co-Parenting
Made Co-Parenting Mistakes After Your Divorce? Step Up To Make It Right!
Made co-parenting mistakes you now regret? It's never too late to make things right with your children or your former spouse. You won't regret it!

Health & Wellbeing
Tips for Healthy Eating and Staying Active After Divorce
Here are healthy eating and physical activity tips to improve physical, mental, and emotional health during and after a divorce.


NEWSLETTER - July 2020

Considering Divorce
How COVID-19 Can Impact the Outcome of Your Divorce
If you're thinking about filing for a divorce during the pandemic, there are a few things that you should consider.

Legal Issues
5 Tips for Getting the Most from Your Attorney During Mediation
Consulting with an attorney can be a valuable component of an effective divorce mediation process.

Divorce Recovery
How My Divorce Helped Prepare Me for the Pandemic
Going through my divorce was the hardest things I've ever done in my life - but the coping strategies I learned then serve me well now.

Financial Issues
How to Protect Your Real Estate Assets from an Impending Divorce
Whether or not you have a prenuptial agreement, begin the process of protecting your non-marital assets as early as you can.

Life After Divorce
Making New Friends Post-Divorce
Losing friends post-divorce is hard, but there are ways you can meet new ones and rekindle old relationships.


NEWSLETTER - June 2020

Considering Divorce
5 Things You Need to Know Before You File for Divorce
Filing for divorce can be a difficult and emotional time. Use these tips to reduce the "sting" of the situation.

Health and Wellbeing
12 Tips for Staying Centered and Calm During the COVID-19 Crisis
If you follow these 12 tips, you will feel more calm, focused, and aligned.

Fathers and Divorce
Father's Day After Divorce: What To Do When It Falls On Her Day
Not having the kids on Father's Day after divorce is a problem that should be resolvable. Here's what you can do.

Co-Parenting after Divorce
Co-Parenting and COVID-19: Why I'm Not Going to War With my Ex
What's a co-parent to do in these unprecedented times?

Life After Divorce
Rebuild Your Life and Career After a Divorce During COVID-19
We are all struggling to come to terms with the innumerable ways that COVID-19 has upended our lives.


NEWSLETTER - May 2020

Co-Parenting after Divorce
4 Tips for Co-Parenting During COVID-19
During this time, we should remind ourselves that we are either part of the problem or part of the solution.

Divorce Recovery
Brighter Days Ahead After Divorce
A top tip for navigating divorce is to remind yourself that you do not need to do this alone.

Divorce News and Statistics
Are Divorce Rates and Custody Issues Linked to COVID-19?
Are divorce rates, parenting time, and child custody conflicts increasing because of the coronavirus pandemic?

Coping with Divorce
Ways a Self-Quarantine During COVID-19 Could Help You in Divorce
For those in an unhappy marriage, the thought of being quarantined with your spouse is unimaginable.

Mothers and Divorce
7 Things You Can do for a Divorced Mom on Mother's Day
This Mother's Day we acknowledge and honor Divorced Moms.


NEWSLETTER - April 2020

Co-Parenting after Divorce
Joint Custody in the Midst Of Coronavirus: Be Flexible With Your Ex
During this pandemic, you must be flexible about changing your parenting schedule to protect your kids. Here are 8 tips to help divorced parents weather the Coronavirus.

Considering Divorce
7 Signs Your Marriage is Over, According to Experts
One of the signs your marriage is over is if you constantly find yourself thinking about leaving your partner. That and these other 6 are signs it may be time to divorce

Financial Issues
Financial Matters During Divorce: Things to Consider
If you are going through divorce, remember to take step back and understand that financial matters during divorce can have a huge impact on you for the rest of your life.

Coping with Divorce
It's Time to Divorce Your Story and Move On
If your life is a book, then you are the author. If you've lost control of the narrative because your marriage ended, then it's time to divorce your story.

Divorce Recovery
Kick-In-The-Butt Letter To Lucy, 59, in Divorce Recovery
Full divorce recovery means no more pity parties and self doubt! Here's a kick-in-the-butt letter to jolt you out of the divorce dip blues and get your divorce recovery back on track. A must read!


NEWSLETTER - March 2020

Financial Issues
The Right Mindset in Divorce and Where Divorcees Go Wrong
There is no such thing as winning in divorce - but there are most definitely successful outcomes. How can you develop the right mindset to increase the odds of a successful outcome?

Relationships and Dating
Why You Should Be Glad You Married A Narcissist
There are lessons to learn from even the darkest moments. Marrying - and divorcing - a narcissist can teach you valuable lessons for future relationships so you don't make the same mistakes again.

Life After Divorce
Post-Divorce Experiences: Become an Active Participant in Life!
Your first instinct after divorce may be to isolate yourself. It's important, though, that you become an active participant in your own life. So get out and live!

Your Home
Moving Into a New Home After Divorce: Things to Remember
Moving into a new home after divorce is a fresh start: a chance to meet new people and make some happy new memories. Just don't sacrifice security when you move.

Children's and Parenting Issues after Divorce
6 Tips to Connect With Kids Long Distance After Divorce
To help your kids adjust to your new long-distance relationship, focus on the quality of your contact, reassure them of your love and devotion, and connect with them regularly.


NEWSLETTER - February 2020

Legal Issues
Tips On How to Handle the Internet During Divorce
It's critical to exercise caution and understand how to handle the Internet during divorce.

Legal Issues
Recording Your Spouse During Divorce: Think Twice Before Hitting the Record Button.
Recording your spouse may seem like a good way to gather evidence, but you must be extremely cautious when doing so or risk criminal repercussions.

Coping with Divorce
7 Single Mom Valentine's Day Ideas
Your single mom Valentine's Day doesn't have to be sad or lonely. Use these 7 unique ideas to celebrate Valentine's Day whether you have a partner or not.

Divorce Recovery
Tips to Beat the "First Valentine's Day Alone" Blues
All holidays are tough in the first year post separation or divorce, so here are some tips to beat the blues on the so-called "Day of Love."

Co-Parenting after Divorce
Parallel Co-Parenting in High Conflict Divorces
Parallel co-parenting allows parents in high-conflict divorces to disengage from problematic communication with each other and focus their energy on raising their child.


NEWSLETTER - January 2020

Divorce Recovery
How to Find the Right Counselor After Divorce
When divorce opens the door to psychological suffering, its time to find the right mental health counselor for you. But in such a large field, it's hard to know who you'll work well with.

Financial Issues
Steps to Sell Your Home During Divorce
Making the sale of the family home a priority can help to eliminate much of the stress associated with divorce. Here are the steps to sell your home during divorce.

Coping with Divorce
7 New Year's Resolutions for Divorced or Divorcing People
Divorce and separation bring change, wanted or not. Why not take advantage of the opportunity to create New Year's resolutions that fit your new life?

Infidelity
Can Dating Profiles Be Used As Evidence In Court?
If you're in the midst of divorce and cheating was involved, you may be wondering if your online dating profile can be used as evidence in divorce court.

Co-Parenting after Divorce
A Guide to Co-Parenting Successfully After Divorce
Here are four tips on how to keep your children's welfare front and center so you can co-parent successfully after divorce.


NEWSLETTER - December 2019

Financial Issues
4 Ways in Which Money Plays a Role in Failed Marriages
Whether or not money is the root of all evil, we can feel it's pervasive influence in many key areas of life, including work, health, social activities - and failed marriages.

Infidelity
Social Media and Divorce: an "Infidelity-Generating" Machine
Social media has become so prevalent in divorce proceedings that Facebook is known as an "infidelity-generating machine."

Coping With Divorce
The Holidays Can be a Painful Reminder of the Things You've Lost
The holidays can be stressful for all of us but for the recently divorced, they bring a new set of painful challenges.

Legal Issues
How to Handle Cybersecurity Concerns During a Divorce
Divorce is hard. Keeping your information safe might be harder. Using these four tips to handle cybersecurity concerns during your divorce can make the process easier and less stressful.

Co-Parenting after Divorce
Assessing Your Ability to Co-Parent after Divorce
What matters most for your children is the absence of conflict during co-parenting. Find your "sweet spot" on the co-parenting continuum.



Client Reviews
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The emotionally charged issues that arise in divorce cases evoke very different responses from judges who see many such cases than from parties who are embroiled in them. To be truly effective, a family law attorney must understand both perspectives--and the written law as well. Rob Wellon has a deep understanding of all of those things. As a consequence, he is a wise counselor and an effective advocate. He is a true leader of the family law bar. A Quote from Chris
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Rob was highly recommended to me from a family friend as I was contemplating divorce after a long and difficult marriage. This was unfamiliar territory for me from the start; however, his paralegals and office staff were welcoming and professional from the beginning until the end. I had been looking for a lawyer with integrity, honesty and sound knowledge of the divorce laws as we were up against a difficult opposing party. At our initial meeting... Sally
★★★★★
Rob Wellon represents his clients aggressively but he is also the voice of reason. His years of experience as a family lawyer are undeniable when representing his clients. I would enthusiastically refer him to any person who sought an expert in this field. Marian
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Attorney Robert Wellon gave me a first-rate performance when it came to my divorce. From the first meeting and throughout my divorce he was a warm and kind gentleman. He asked me what outcome I wanted from the divorce and from that moment going forward I only had to relax and let him litigate my case. He offered me such conformality and tranquility during a time of uncertainty. He has outstanding strategic capabilities, ensuring a successful outcome. He’s a highly respected lawyer... Vivian